The Gift That Keeps Giving.
If money was no problem for you, what would you buy for your child? Would it be a new car? Would it be the latest gaming system? Would it be full tuition at a university?
The answer is, probably whatever they wanted.
What if one of the most important gifts that you can give your child cannot be bought?
Let’s talk about self-esteem.
This condition that we as parents talk about often while raising our children. Can we gift self-esteem? Some of the experts in the field of social psychology say that self-esteem is genetic and decided by age 5 years. Is that true; I don’t know.
The gift that I want to talk about and cannot be bought, is self-confidence.
Here is what I do know; self-esteem and self confidence are two very different issues.
Self-confidence can be gifted.
But,,,,,,
Self-Confidence cannot be wrapped in a box nor can it be ordered online.
Self-confidence cannot be gifted through a motivational speaker.
Sadly, self-confidence can’t be gifted by praise from parents.
Self-confidence is gained by overcoming obstacles that life presents to us.
Self-confidence is something that has to be taught hands on.
Self-confidence can negate the presence of low self-esteem.
This form of self-confidence builds a platform that supports the successful growth of our children in all the arenas of life. Do you wonder why our children struggle sometimes in school? Is it because the curriculum is so tough? Probably not the case in our schools.
Chances are your child has other issues on his or her mind while sitting in that classroom. Often that issue is another student or peer group. You as a parent can provide your child the opportunity to gain the self-confidence that is needed to keep their minds on the curriculum and not the problem student who is renting valuable space in your child’s head.
This disruptive, even fearful school atmosphere has spread all over our country. It’s not just in my home state of Florida. This atmosphere was not as toxic in my schooling of the 1960’s & 70’s. How it has gotten so bad, is a debate for another post. What the current situation has given birth to is government interaction in the form of this:
Basically, we leave the problem children in the classroom and rely on verbal communication intervention.
“Give your child the ability to handle the problem child when that verbal intervention fails.”
“Give your child the gift of self-confidence by getting them trained in self-defense.”
The self-confidence obtained by training in a good self defense program will follow them for life; whether they are working in a factory or a boardroom. You invest so much in your child’s life. Your hopes for their future is high and your love is eternal. Protect that investment; get them trained.
I’m wrote about what to look for in a training facility, follow this link.
Thank you for taking the time to read this post.